How does someone become infected with HIV?
HIV can be spread through any type of unprotected sex (oral, vaginal,
or anal) if one of the partners has the virus. This can happen when
body fluids such as semen (cum), vaginal fluids, or blood from an
infected person get into the body of someone who is not infected.
Someone can become infected even if only tiny amounts of these fluids
are spread. Everyone who has unprotected sex with an infected person is
at risk of contracting HIV, but people who already have another sexually
transmitted disease (STD) are even more at risk.
HIV can be spread sexually from a guy to a girl, a girl to a guy, a guy to a guy, and a girl to a girl.
Sharing needles to inject drugs or steroids is another way that HIV
can be passed to other people. Sharing of needles for tattoos,
piercings, and body art can also lead to infection. Someone with HIV who
shares a needle also shares the virus, which lives in the tiny amounts
of blood attached to the needle. Sharing needles also can pass hepatitis
and other serious infections to another person.
Also, newborn babies are at risk of getting the HIV virus from their
mothers if they're infected. This can happen before the baby is born,
during birth, or through breastfeeding. Pregnant teens and women should be tested for HIV because infected women who receive treatment for HIV are much
less likely to spread the virus to their babies. Babies born to mothers
infected with HIV are also given special medicines to try to prevent
HIV infection.
Protecting Yourself:
The best way to protect yourself from HIV is to abstain from oral, vaginal, and anal sex and to not share needles.
If you do have sex, using latex condoms
properly every time can help protect you. Condoms work by providing a
barrier to the body fluids that can be shared during sexual activity
(including oral sex). Always follow the directions exactly and never use
the same condom twice. If you have had unprotected sex (sex without a
condom) or have shared needles with someone else, you should be tested
for HIV. If you've had sex with a condom, you also should be tested
since condoms are effective when used correctly, but are not perfect.
And ask your partner to be tested as well.
Asking people if they have HIV is not a reliable way of finding out
whether they are infected. People may not answer truthfully. They may be
embarrassed to tell you or may not want you to know. Or they may not
even know they have the virus because it can take many years for
symptoms to develop. An infected person will look healthy for many years
and can still spread the virus.
Many places, such as doctors' offices, health departments, hospitals,
and sites that specialize in HIV testing, can provide more information
about HIV and AIDS, personal counseling, and, testing. Talk with your doctor about any questions or concerns you might have.
Source: kidshealth